Wonen, Buren
Particulier
Neighbor dispute
For more than a year me and my family have been verbally harassed by the neighbor living below our apartment. Claiming we make a lot of noise ever since he feels comfortable enough to ring our bell even at 23:00 to complain about sounds he gets to hear. He is taking initiative every time my partner is all alone with our two year old son, by shouting, cursing, even moving aggressively towards her trying to intimidate her. Every day he is banging walls, his ceiling at even when my son is in bed, on purpose to make a statement, to be seen. We have been calling the police/neighborhood police ever since, reporting his actions every now and then, also filling reports against him to the company who owns the building, recording proof of his actions without any luck.
In the meantime he is facing problems with more renters living in the same building.
Ultimately tomorrow afternoon the company (owners) made an appointment between us and the neighbor who is causing all this mess to resolve this. Representatives from the company will be present is that appointment.
I was hoping neighborhood police to join the appointment but it is not possible. Please advise me on this email.
Sincerely,
In the meantime he is facing problems with more renters living in the same building.
Ultimately tomorrow afternoon the company (owners) made an appointment between us and the neighbor who is causing all this mess to resolve this. Representatives from the company will be present is that appointment.
I was hoping neighborhood police to join the appointment but it is not possible. Please advise me on this email.
Sincerely,
The company owning the building is trying a mediation or buurtbemiddeling in this cae. That is to get a conversation going about how both parties in this case feel about the situation. This will give you the opportunity to tell your story and explain what it meens to you to be in this conflict. THe neighbour will have the same opportunity. Try to listen to what he has to say and why he has a problem with his living situation. Maybe there is a way to de-escalate the situation and come to an agreement on how to make living accomodations good for the both of you. I wish you all the luck to make it happen.