Deviating from parenting plan agreements?

Questioner

I have been in a new relationship for some time now (5 months) after a divorce (2021). The parenting plan that was drawn up at the time states the following: —- New partner Should one (1) of us get a new partner, we will only introduce them if it is a serious relationship that lasts at least 1 year (within term). If we have informed each other and we have consulted without the children present (already happened). We then discuss with each other whether we think the children are ready and open to meeting a new partner. (already happened). We first get to know a new partner of one of us before the children meet him or her (requested). The children staying overnight at one of our homes in the presence of the new partner or at the new partner's in the presence of one of us only happens when the relationship has lasted a year. (not yet applicable). If there is a disagreement between us regarding the new partner of one of us, we will discuss this among ourselves in a respectful and involved manner with priority for the children. We will not have this conversation in the presence of the children. —- Now I want to introduce my new partner to the children. My ex wants to move along to 9 months. However, she insists that she also meets my new partner first. My specific question: is it punishable if I deviate from the agreements made at the time and introduce my new partner to the children without the intervention of my ex, and what could be the possible consequences of this (criminal law)? It is important to mention that I am a 50% co-parent. And that I am limited in my new relationship by the rule and the rigid attitude of my ex.

Lawyer

In certain cases it is possible to deviate from agreements that are recorded in a parenting plan. A parenting plan is a document in which parents make agreements about the care, upbringing and contact with their children after a divorce or separation. It is important to know that a parenting plan is often drawn up with the interests of the child in mind. It is intended to provide stability and clarity and to prevent or resolve conflicts between the parents. Therefore, it is generally advisable to comply with the agreements in the parenting plan. However, if there are weighty reasons to deviate from the agreements in the parenting plan, it is possible to do so. Weighty reasons can be, for example, changes in circumstances, such as a move, a change in the work schedule or a change in the needs of the child. It is important to be able to substantiate these weighty reasons well. In the event of a possible deviation from the parenting plan, it is wise to first consult with the other parent. Try to find a solution together that is in the best interest of the child. If you deviate from the agreements, there are no further criminal consequences. For example, your ex-partner can enforce compliance with the parenting plan. The consequence may be that if you do not comply with the agreements, your children will suffer if discussions arise. You must always make agreements in the interest of the child.