Legal assistance with covenants | Legal aid

Questioner

I divorced my ex-wife in 2014, and we had a covenant drawn up at the time. However, this agreement proved to be insufficient for both parties, which is why we had a second agreement drawn up. Unfortunately, my ex-wife apparently felt the need to drop a letter from her lawyer on my doormat two weeks ago (quite unexpectedly). It stated that my ex did not agree with several matters in our agreement, which is why she went to see a lawyer. Strangely enough, this lawyer referred to the first agreement drawn up. I pointed this out to the lawyer and also to the fact that the current agreement states that in the event of a difference of opinion, we must first try to resolve it through mutual consultation. If this does not work, a registered mediator must be called in. If we still cannot reach an agreement, we can call in a lawyer. I also indicated that I find this a very strange state of affairs, I have to do everything I can to adhere to the rules of my covenant, and then the 'other party' does not have to do this. Unfortunately, my ex-wife's lawyer didn't care about this at all. After I asked her a few days later whether she had received my email, she sent me an email in which there was no answer, only that she (strongly) still insisted on a meeting between my ex and me, with her ''in attendance''. Can someone tell me what I can/may/must do/undertake in this situation?

Lawyer

It is unclear to me which matters in the covenant are specifically concerned, but I advise you in such a case to hire a lawyer yourself. You may contact me for this without obligation.